Life Is Short
When news broke that Doug Lebda, founder and CEO of LendingTree, had died in an ATV accident on his family farm, it sent shockwaves through the business world. He was only 55.(full story here)
This sudden loss is a painful reminder that life is fragile, unpredictable, and finite. No matter how much we plan or how busy we are, we are still vulnerable to forces beyond our control. In that truth lies both a challenge and an opportunity.
When Success Meets Fragility
Doug Lebda was not just a corporate executive. He was an innovator and visionary who turned a personal frustration into a platform that transformed how millions access credit. He built something that will likely last beyond his years.
Yet, despite that legacy, his passing reminds us that accomplishments do not insulate us from the brevity of life. No title, wealth, or reputation can guarantee time.
Lessons for Us All
1. Don’t wait
We often tell ourselves, “Someday I’ll,” “Once I have more time,” or “After I reach that goal.” But someday may never arrive. Use today. Make the calls. Say the things. Start the change.
2. Reevaluate priorities
Work and ambition have meaning, but they should never overshadow what truly matters. Family, relationships, health, and kindness outlast any title or achievement. In the end, we remember how we loved, not how much we earned.
3. Live intentionally
Instead of drifting through time, live with purpose. Ask yourself, “If I had limited time, what would I do differently?” Use that insight to guide your choices today.
4. Take risks wisely
Lebda was on his family farm, likely doing something he loved, when tragedy struck. That doesn’t mean we should live in fear, but we should approach risk with respect, preparation, and humility.
5. Leave a legacy now
You don’t have to wait until you’re known to make a difference. Small acts of kindness, mentorship, and encouragement can ripple farther than you realize.
A Call to Action
Reach out to someone you’ve been meaning to reconnect with.
Spend time today doing something meaningful with someone you love.
Write down what matters most and compare it to where your time goes.
Let gratitude shape your mornings and humility guide your days.
In Memoriam
Doug Lebda will be remembered not only as a business leader but as a husband and father. His life, cut short, encourages us to live more fully, more compassionately, and more intentionally.
Life is short. But within that brevity there is meaning, love, and room for change.
Let us not wait for tragedy to wake us up.